
We live in a fast-paced world today that is driven by technology. We spend more and more time in front of one or another “screen” — usually to be entertained. We expect new and endless opportunities to be get some kind of “adrenalin rush” by the media, by music, by sports, etc. With this kind of constant stimulation, is it any wonder that we often feel shortchanged when we come to Church? Shouldn’t our experience in Church be equally exciting? Over the years I cannot count the times I have heard the words “I don’t get anything out of it….” therefore, I don’t participate and/or haven’t gone to Church for a long time! It’s boring!
I recently read the following in a brochure published by Our Sunday Visitor entitled “Why do we ‘have to’ go to Mass?”
When entertainment is the model for church worship services, the leaders try to induce particular feelings in the audience. The Mass, however, is just the opposite. It is a ritual in which people bring their own feelings and incorporate them into the liturgy. That’s why it is possible for two people to attend Mass, one grieving a death and the other celebrating a birth, yet both feel connected. The whole point is to go beyond feelings into authentic prayer, which is the offering of oneself to God in Jesus Christ.
Those gathered to worship at the Sunday liturgy are not an “audience.” They are officially called an “Assembly.” Christ is present in several ways, including in the group gathered for worship. That means that we are not merely there as passive recipients or consumers of a spiritual sensation, but active participants in meeting Christ in the gathering, in the Scriptures, the Holy Eucharist (and in the priest who presides at the liturgy). Everyone has a role to play in this action (participants, priest, music ministers, lectors, Eucharistic ministers, ushers, greeters, etc.) No one is an audience, unless you’re watching the liturgy in your home on TV. And even there you’re an extension of the worshipping Assembly.
I believe, too, that the Christ we do NOT encounter in the Sunday liturgy is the same Christ we do NOT encounter in each other every day. What do I “get out of” trying to be a decent human being, and to live with others in a peaceful and respectful way each day? I want to be treated well by others, but am I not also obliged to return the compliment? If the emphasis is only on what “I get out of it” what does this say about my obligations to others? Is it really all about me only?
Liturgy and life challenge us in the same say: It’s not simply what I am to receive, but what I am to give. On Sunday, this involves giving/sharing myself in many ways: being attentive, greeting people, responding to the prayers, singing the songs, coming forward to receive the Body and Blood of the Lord, and taking what has been given to me home for the coming week. The rest of the week, I am involved in a great deal of “give and take”–i.e. responding — to others. In neither realm am I merely a passive observer/consumer. I am a participant. There is much more involved in daily life beyond merely “getting something out of it.”
There are many factors today that interfere with authentic worship, which is the centerpiece of the practice of our religion. What I don’t give and receive at Mass is probably what I don’t give and receive to God and others in my life each day. When the attitude of “what’s in it for me” begins to become the attitude of “what do I have/need to share with you” my life–and my worship–will begin to look much more interesting!
P.S. Someday, when I get enough courage, I will do a blog on the clergy, many of whom seem to have a very difficult time giving meaningful homilies at the Sunday liturgy! What is applies to the laity also applies to the clergy!